Thursday, 6 December 2012

Talk for Bedford Counsellors' Network

Below is the text for the talk I will give this evening (December 6th. 2012)



Text of talk to be given on December 6th 2012

W. R. Bion and Reverie

I propose to structure the talk in the following way:
a)    Start with a description of reverie and the experience of it;
b)    Give some biographical information about Bion to give a context;
c)    If we are feeling safe enough, share two minutes of not speaking as a group;
d)    Finish with a discussion about how reverie can be used in therapy.

There are two types of experience, according to Bion: that of the pre-conceptual and the conceptual. These experiences may be thought of roughly as pre-verbal and verbal and (largely) unconscious and conscious states. It is suggested that they need to be linked, and if this linking does not take place properly a sense of a fully integrated and contained self cannot develop. The linking happens in reverie and other dream states.

I think that Marilyn Mathew describes the experience of reverie very well when she talks about reverie being like the unlatching of an internal window. She describes the experience of looking outside through a window and meditatively allowing oneself to be drawn into the view. There is the experience of being absorbed into the distance and the sense of entering into a space deep inside oneself. One enters into a dream-like state though fully conscious.

Though it’s a dreamy state in wakefulness, it’s different to what we usually think of as day-dreams. Daydreams are more like Freud’s idea of wish-fulfilment: there is a wish or desire or conflict that needs to be resolved. This is done in fantasy, in consciousness, for an example with an erotic daydream; of a fantasy of romance, say, or a dream of a tropical island holiday on a grey winter’s day in England.

Reverie is more unbidden. There’s a sense of going beyond oneself, and at the same time being drawn deep within oneself.

In the context of therapy time, Ogden has described reverie as being like ruminations. They are reflective thoughts that are going on in the background that one keeps coming back to. Often as therapists I think we worry about these thoughts and can see them as distractions.

Ogden gives the example of feeling that he was distracted in a session with a patient. Where he works there is an office car park. Without permission a couple have set up a hand car wash business in the car park. They have a loud industrial vacuum cleaner which they use for cleaning the interiors of the cars. In the session Ogden is drawn into the disturbing noise of the vacuum. His patient does not appear to notice. He starts thinking about how abrasive and difficult the couple doing the car cleaning are to deal with. He is going to have to deal with the City Hall in making a complaint about noise nuisance and planning rules infringement along with legal procedures to get them off the car park. When he ‘comes round’ from his absorption in these thoughts and the noise of the vacuum, he feels bad about himself and is very anxious. His patient doesn’t appear to have noticed anything and has continued to talk. Though his patient has described symptoms that are uncomfortable for her, the way she presents herself is very ‘up.’ She is a successful lawyer, married and leads an active social life.

Over the next few weeks Ogden finds himself coming back to his reverie and his reflections and ruminations on it. He wonders about whether he was distracted and failed to be able to concentrate on what his client was saying because of his own concerns or whether there was something else. As the sessions go on his client slowly reveals in the sessions that she feels empty and meaningless as a person and is very frightened by the void she experiences herself as being. Ogden describes his work with his patient in some detail but essentially in terms of the reverie there’s an association that Ogden made between the void of the vacuum cleaner that he was drawn into and his client experiencing herself as a frightening void. In the moment of the therapy session Ogden was able to make the link between inside and outside states and pre-conceptual and conceptual experiences when it seems that his patient was unable to do that in that moment.

A reverie example from literature is set in a short story by the writer Haruki Murakami. The story is somewhat surreal though apparently based in ordinary reality. A young successful couple newly married find themselves hungry one evening with nothing to eat in the fridge. They live in Tokyo and could simply go to a 24 hour supermarket. However, that isn’t going to be enough: it won’t satisfy them. They decide that they have to hold up an all-night bakery and steal the bread.

While they are having this conversation, the male protagonist of the story falls into a reverie. He experiences himself as bobbing in a little boat on a vast ocean. The water is opaque. Then it clears to reveal a great depth and a large volcano in the sea bed. This revelation as Murakami calls it is over in a matter of seconds and his wife doesn’t appear to notice.

As an interpretation I might say that the protagonist thinks that he knows himself and his wife and that they are safe and secure in ordinary life. However the linking of his internal and external states reveals something else to him – the fragility of life and how he can know someone else or not and himself.

I would say that reveries can be experienced as everyday, as with Ogden’s distraction by the vacuum cleaner, or as a significant linking and structural change, what might be termed a ‘reverie moment’ such as with the revelation Murakami’s character experiences.

Biography and development of the idea of reverie
Bion was born in India in 1897. He came to England aged 8, to go to school here, and lived most of his life in England. For the last 10 years of his life he lived in California. In 1979 he returned and died within a couple of months of his return, aged 82.

He left school at 18 and went straight into the first world war as a tank commander. He was awarded a DSO for a particular action. He described the experience of war as highly traumatic and felt that there was a moment when he died existentially.

After the war he read history at Oxford University, then trained in medicine at University College London. He thought he might train as a surgeon, then turned to psychiatry and his interest in psychoanalysis. Between the wars he worked at the Tavistock Institute and started to train as a psychoanalyst with John Rickman. This training was interrupted by the second world war. He rejoined the army as a psychiatrist. Initially he was involved with recruitment boards and selection. Then later he worked with trauma. Initially this was about how to get traumatised service people back to the frontline, and later re-integrated with civilian life. He was in charge of what came to be known as the first Northfield experiment at the Birmingham hospital. This was a forerunner of the therapeutic communities movement. However, the first experiment was short-lived. The patients responded well but the staff found the ‘leaderless’ approach too difficult to handle and the project was abandoned. A year later Harold Bridger set up the second experiment, which did continue.

Bion wrote a book called ‘Experience in Groups.’ After the war, though, he turned to individual work and completed his psychoanalytic training with Melanie Klein.

In terms of developing theory, Bion developed one of Klein’s key concepts: projective identification. Projective identification was developed from Freud’s idea of projection and transference. The basic idea is that very young infants need someone to identify with as a way of dealing with their chaotic and split off mental states which predominate in the infant experience, as Klein saw it. The person identified with initially is usually the mother or the person doing the mothering function. The infant experiences herself as the mother without separation as a way of being able to split off the bad feelings that threaten to overwhelm.

Bion acknowledged this defensive position but said that this happens when projective identification is excessive. When it is not excessive and experienced in a state of reverie between mother and baby then this is a form of communication. It is a usual form of communication in pre-conceptual experience. Through this communication learning and development can take place. An inner psychological space is developed, which Bion called a container.

The container is both a structure and a containing process. Initially the containing space for a baby is not developed. An identification with the containing space of another is therefore needed for experience to be bearable. In this way a containing space within the infant can develop. The containing space of the other is needed less. The baby can learn to self-soothe, self-regulate emotion and develop more independently. There is more of a sense of a self being contained, a sense of being able to come home to oneself and to bring home needed resources.

There can also be the sense of a persecutory container if the containing process has not functioned properly in the early parenting experience. There needs to be a sense of being able to go beyond this initial experience of the container in order to be able to repair and heal. In reverie there is this sense of beyond. There’s a sense of looking out into a distance which draws one into a very inner space.

Group Experience

Use of reverie



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